Introduction
Most men are very simple beasts. We are ready for sex at nearly any time (and place). Often a glance at a sexy bum, or a brief flash of naked flesh is enough to get us ready for action. Women by comparison are much more complex and mysterious creatures so their desires can be more difficult for men to understand.
They say that men are from Mars, and women are from Venus and this is reflected in the differences in our characters, preferences, and behaviours. So maybe it’s no surprise that these differences are also reflected in our sexual behaviours and could be why we are so different in the bedroom?
Or are we? You may be surprised to know that your partner’s sex drive is just as strong (or even stronger) than yours. You may also be surprised to know that like you, your partner masturbates when she is alone just as often, or even more often than you (yes really).
So if you both have a strong sex drive, and you are both “masturbation champions” then why do you struggle to make fireworks together in the bedroom? I mean sure you both have orgasms (usually). But does your partner sometimes not seem to be in the mood for sex, and you struggle to get her interested in the idea? Does your partner say she enjoys having sex with you even though she sometimes does not orgasm?
Does it feel like your sex life is lacking and could be more exciting or complete? Or are you already having good sex with your partner and you are simply looking for new ways to spice up your game?
Would you like to learn some new and creative ways to satisfy your partner?
Trust me you are not alone! I spent many years learning how to bridge the gaps between male and female sexuality in my own life. It took a lot of patience, a lot of study, a lot of practice, and a whole lot of listening (to women), but I’ve learned enough to make women happy and get them coming back for more… and I am ready to share my learnings with you.
What is a Sensual Man:
To me being a sensual man is about being in tune with your partner by being more sympathetic to and investing more attention to her needs. Giving attention is mostly about trying to read your partner’s body language and slowing things down and in order to move at a pace that is more appropriate to her.
This may sound a bit lop-sided or even like I am suggesting that you put your partner’s needs before your own, but hear me out. It is (hopefully) common knowledge that most men’s arousal levels move much more quickly than women’s, so when you slow down you are actually allowing your partner to keep pace with you better.
Of course you can probably get most women to orgasm even if you rush them, but that makes sex more like a snack than a full meal which is not likely going to be very memorable (for either of you). If you take your time, and go slowly you can also get most women to warm up and have more enthusiasm for sex.
Now if you think I am about to convince you with visions of candlelit rooms and sweet violin music playing in the background where you kiss your partner’s hand before proceeding to make sweet boring “missionary” love to her (basically the worst parts of every stereotypical romance novel), then I’ve got good news for you!
Being a sensual man is about treating your partner to a long slow luxurious buildup eventually driving your partner to earth shattering, screaming orgasms which leave both of you laying limp from exhaustion on sweat soaked sheets panting like marathon runners. (I hope that description spawned some vivid images in your head)
This will make you the stuff of legends and have her craving you more than oxygen! (ok I might be exaggerating a little but you get the point)
Well hopefully my introduction got your attention so… Hello and welcome to my humble website. Stay a while, and look around. This site is updated frequently so I hope you will continue to find new topics of interest to you.