They say that the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Or to put it another way if a woman wants to win a man over she does it by being an excellent cook and making his favourite dishes.
So how does a man go about capturing a lady’s heart. By cooking for her? Well cooking your partner’s favourite dish might be a good example of pre-foreplay, but I really didn’t start this website to share my favourite recipes. So I recommend the best way of winning over a lady is by being great at Oral Sex!
Don’t believe me? Well I frequent several internet bulletin boards where both men and women speak frankly and openly about sex. One of the most frequent comments from women is that they have their most mind blowing orgasms through oral sex, or that their orgasms from intercourse are much better if they’ve already had and orgasm from oral sex.
But surprisingly even though many women enjoy oral sex very much, they often struggle to have satisfying oral sex. A frequent complaint is that their partner is good at oral sex, but does not do it for long enough or that many men seem to use oral sex only as foreplay before intercourse. Some women also comment that their partners try to their best to please them with oral sex, but just don’t seem to understand how to do it in a way that feels good to them.
I suppose porn could be partly to blame for this because typically when men in porn perform oral sex they go directly to the clitoris and start aggressively sucking and licking it, then the woman starts screaming out her orgasm a few seconds later. (So not very realistic)
So if most of your sexual experience was gained from watching porn then I suggest you forget what you have learned about oral sex and spend some time reading the pages in this site and following the links I provide. I assume that you already know that the clitoris is the “magic button” that will set a woman off, but you may need to learn a little patience so you don’t rush to push her button before she is ready.
If you think any of my information is incorrect, or can be improved please do contact me. My sensual journey is far from over and I am always looking to learn new things, or improve/correct things I thought I knew.